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The
Christmas Story
        Some ten years ago my wife Heather and I
wrote ten monologues purporting to be the words of ten ‘witnesses’ of Jesus’
birth and its aftermath.  For this
Christmas week’s blog I have chosen the account of Joseph  husband of Mary the mother of Jesus.
| Heather and I | 
All that we
know of Joseph from the Gospels is that he was a very kindly man and that he
loved Mary so much that, even when he thought that she was going to give birth
to another man’s child, he didn’t want her to be punished or shamed.
Heather and I decided that he would also have been very wise, gentle and tolerant. Our Joseph had great love and respect for Mary’s parents but he didn’t agree with her father’s militant nationalism. He welcomed the wise men and their caravan guide and recognised the guide as a good man despite the fact that he was a worshipper of a heathen goddess. He made friends with the Roman frontier guards who helped Mary, himself and the baby Jesus escape intoEgypt ,
and with the Egyptian woman who gave them shelter and who prayed for their safe
return to Israel 
at the shrine of her goddess Isis.  He
hoped that if Mary’s son really was destined to ‘change the world’ he would
change it into a place where Romans, Greeks, Jews and Persians lived together
in peace, and where it was recognised that those who followed the spirit within
them that urged them toward love, friendship and forgiveness rather than greed,
cruelty and vengeance, were serving the one true God, whatever they might call
him.
Heather and I decided that he would also have been very wise, gentle and tolerant. Our Joseph had great love and respect for Mary’s parents but he didn’t agree with her father’s militant nationalism. He welcomed the wise men and their caravan guide and recognised the guide as a good man despite the fact that he was a worshipper of a heathen goddess. He made friends with the Roman frontier guards who helped Mary, himself and the baby Jesus escape into
    Our
world would surely be a happier one if there were more people in it like ‘our’ Joseph.
We have imagined him talking to a close friend soon after returning, with Mary and Jesus, from
Joseph’s Story   
 
‘I have the greatest respect and
admiration for my wife’s parents.  It is
surely due to their upbringing that Mary has proved to be a loyal friend and a
congenial companion to me, as well as a loving wife and mother.  I shall never forget either, how Joachim, Mary’s
father, helped my journeyman assistant to keep the business going during the
five long years that we were away, while Anne, his wife, made sure that our
home would always be ready, clean and welcoming for us on our return.
   I have to say though, that I
don’t share Joachim’s unthinking hatred of all things Roman or his narrow
nationalism that sees all other races and traditions as being vastly inferior
to our own.  After all, it wasn’t the
Roman Governor but Herod – one of our own people – who killed the innocent
babes of Bethlehem 
   But I’m getting ahead of
myself.  You’ll have heard from Joachim
about the terrible trouble that we all thought had beset us when Mary announced
that she was expecting a child.  I was
devastated.  No, I don’t know quite what
I would have done if I hadn’t had that angelic visitation assuring me that Mary
was telling the truth.  I really loved
her – and I do know that I wouldn’t have let her be submitted to public shame,
much less would I have let her be punished by a cruel death.
As you know, Mary and I were quietly married. Hardly though had we
settled down in Nazareth  and made our
preparations for the baby’s arrival than there came this order from Rome Bethlehem 
   I had hoped that it might have
been possible for Mary and I to travel down there, be counted and get back to Nazareth 
   My hopes had been wildly over-optimistic.  Those weeks quickly passed.  Travelling through Samaria 
   That was only one of our
mishaps. By the time we reached
Bethlehem 
   I prayed – and my prayers were
answered.  The innkeeper’s wife took one
look at Mary and took her under her wing. 
She was a great organiser.  There
wasn’t a spare room but there was an empty stable that she transformed into a
birth chamber with bales of hay.  She
bundled me into the saloon bar with some food and a drink while she and her
daughter Ruth attended to Mary.
   They called me back after about
an hour.  Baby Jesus had been born.  Mary, cradling him in her arms, was
radiant.  I wasn’t very pleased when,
just as we were settling down to try and get some sleep, some shepherds
arrived.  They had been told by an angel
that the saviour of mankind had just been born and they had come to pay him
homage.
   I’d have been inclined to tell
them to come back in the morning but Mary, her spirits completely restored,
welcomed them and showed them our lovely child. I was amazed at Mary’s
self-assurance when, holding the baby in her arms, she gave the shepherds the blessing for which they asked,
while they knelt humbly in the straw before her.
   We had to get used to that sort
of thing.  A room became vacant in the
inn and we moved into it and settled down for Mary to recover her
strength.  We made our formal visit to
the Temple  in Jerusalem 
and were just preparing to return to Nazareth 
when a great caravan of heavily laden camels entered Bethlehem Persia 
   The Magi were very
awe-inspiring but I remember particularly the caravan captain who had guided
them to us.  He wore round his neck an
amulet that made it clear that he was a devotee of the goddess Ashtoreth, whom
I had always been told was a spirit of extreme evil.  I fully expected Jesus to shrink away from it
– or alternatively for it to shrivel up under his gaze.  Not a bit of it though.  He had a special smile and a gurgle for the
caravan captain – and he reached out to play with the brightly coloured amulet.
   The captain was a good man –
though he worshipped a cruel, heathen goddess. 
He had realized that we were in deadly peril from Herod, who feared that
Jesus would one day seize his throne.  
He tried to warn us – a warning that was confirmed during the night when
our angel again appeared to tell us to pack up and head for safety in Egypt 
   We avoided the main routes into
Egypt 
   Eventually we reached Egypt 
   When we heard that that wicked
King Herod had died, Cleopatra, the Greek lady, urged us to stay with her and
the good friends that we had made in Egypt land  of Israel 
   If Mary’s son is destined to
change the whole world, I’d like to see him change it to a world in which Jews,
Samaritans, Romans, Greeks and Persians can live together in peace.  A world in which we Israelites and those who
worship the many gods of the heathen will realize that we are all serving the
one true God (whatever we may call him) when we follow that instinct within
ourselves that leads us away from violence, cruelty and desire for revenge and
towards love, kindliness and forgiveness.
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